Saturday, October 25, 2008

... bad temper ...

Crite ni mungkin ada yang pernah baca..rasp pun dah pernah baca, tapi rasp mmg rasa pengajaran crite ni amat bagus, jadi rasp skali lagi nak share ni dgn uols....

Bad Temper

There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.

The first day, the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all.

He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.

The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry the wound is still there. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one."

Kata-kata boleh menjadi madu dan juga racun especially bila kita marah..jadi think before u talk, tak pun bila marah tak perlu berkata-kata :D choose ur words wisely..love peace not war!!!

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12 comments:

eLLy said...

yes love peace not war !!

reena said...

jgn gado2 k....gado2 syg takpe...ekekke

imz said...

tak suka la gaduh2..tak aman..!!

moralle said...

sis but in this world kan ramai orang yg tak think dulu bila nak cakap, pakai terjah jer, sodap mulut lah gitu kan, itu yg slalunyer meninggalkan bekas and its difficult to forget ):

PerantauSepi1306 said...

yeszaaa.... setuju ngan sis.. tapi tulah kan bila dah marah ni speshly poms memang emosi selalu melebih kewarasan akal fikiran....

ladyell said...

lebih elok berdiam diri dr berkata2 kn sis...ada jugak pepatah "tajam lidah tu umpama sebilah pedang "...gitulah kn...maknanya...kata2 tu boleh menyakitkn...

org brmadah nk brmadah jgk..ntah betul ntah tdk...tp u pernah dgr tk sis...

lily lotus said...

kewlll...

Mieza said...

tu la...kata2 bole jd racun n penawar..so bolelah jdkan pengajaran ek...:D

rasp said...

elly,
: tat's rite babe!

reena,
: gado2 manje gitu ;D

imz,
: ya betullllll

moralle,
: true sis..i agree..especially if yang dah berumur tu..susah nak tegur kan, mau kena lada je camtu :D

my kids dah byk kali i storykan crite ni..biar senang for them to remember what words can do!

perantau,
: tul tu sis...poms nie mmg terlebih emo skit..sbb tu if i too angry i lebih suka berdiam dulu till cool down then leh settle prob..kalo tak mau WWIII :D

ell,
: i madah pujangga fail skit hahahah tapi i rasa tu tul... tapi i improvise skit..lebih tajam dari pedang samurai :D

lily,
: cool babeh!

mieza,
: tul sis...Tuhan dah berikan kita akal..so silalah gunakannya.. untung kalo kita berhemah, tapi rugi besor oooo kalo kita kurang ajor..:D

Lily Satrina ® said...

♡ brilliant sis morale.

♡ this is my breakfast, and im eating the food of soul.

♡ you can insult somebody and withdraw what you said, but by the way you have said it you devastate that person, and the scar will last forever.

♡ a verbal offense is as damaging as a physical offense.

♡ tya

eedany said...

setuju sis...tapi kekadang susah nak control kan, kan...?

Selalu jer orang kata kat kita...'jgn suka marah2 nanti lekas tua!

makin geram rasanya kan?

:)

rasp said...

tya,
: true sis..a verbal offense kkdg lagi damaging tau! so takmolah gaduh2 kan...

eedany,
: mmg susah control bila temp tengah naik..buat praktis makes almost perfect :D